Two weeks ago, I preached about the ways authoritarian regimes derive power from our loneliness, isolation, and fear of one another (if you missed it, you can read a transcript here). Because of that, showing up here to gather in community is a counter-cultural act of resistance. I joked that perhaps we should affix the famous words from folk singer Woody Guthrie’s guitar, “This machine kills fascists,” to the coffee carafes at fellowship hour. On a more serious note, I cited the work of political philosopher, Hannah Arendt, who in the wake of the Holocaust in Nazi Germany, devoted her life to studying the nature of evil and power. Arendt concluded that totalitarianism was “organized loneliness.” I said if that was the case, it was time for us to get serious about organized belonging. And I meant it. So I have two requests this week:

1. Lean into the organized part:
It takes work to sustain this congregation as a site of belonging, connection, spiritual nourishment, and holy resistance. Yes, that means dedicating time and energy to our social justice efforts as a church, but it also goes beyond that. A church community that rejects a culture of isolation and division requires many skills and gifts. We need people who will volunteer for the pastoral care team, teach our children, host game nights, help us keep track of finances, and help us learn how to navigate conflict so we can hold differences without fracture (this work is often referred to as “right relations” in UU jargon). Each of you has a role to play in this work, whether you can commit to weekly meetings or to showing up once a year for a volunteer event. This year we will be embarking on some important endeavors. We will begin articulating our mission and vision and building out a right relations team. I’ll be sharing more details about these efforts in the coming weeks. There is no better time to get involved. You don’t even have to know how you want to contribute yet. If you’re feeling called to get more engaged at church, in small or large (or different) ways, reach out (dgarrett@firstchurchinsalem.org) and let’s talk. 

2. Enjoy the belonging part:
There is a lot of good work to do, but church isn’t all work. This is a place to rest, play, pray, learn, cry, question, contemplate, find joy and cultivate friendship. Don’t ever feel guilty about doing those things. You all have worked so hard over these past three years to move this congregation to a place of greater health and financial sustainability. It was difficult and slow work, but you committed to it. You kept showing up even when church wasn’t always a fun place to be. The work isn’t done but you have so much to be proud of. So take a deep breath. You deserve to enjoy this place and each other. And there is so very much to enjoy. Behind your self-deprecating statements about being reserved New Englanders, you are funny, warm, welcoming, creative, talented, and smart in a million different ways. I see the ways you greet newcomers, take joy in our children and youth, engage in our wider community, and cultivate a wicked sense of humor. I am constantly delighted to spend time with you! Truly! And I want you to be delighted to spend time with one another. If what you need to do this church year is just remember how to love church and enjoy one another’s company, that’s more than enough.  

It is such a joy to be your minister. We live in difficult times, but I have so much hope that we have what we need, here in this beloved community, to navigate them together.

In faith,

Rev. Danielle